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Being in a relationship really does seem to make you fatter

A massive study has found that couples tend to have healthier lifestyles than single people, but that doesn’t stop them from piling on the pounds

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FINDING love isn’t great for your waistline. A large study has found that even though couples tend to have healthier lifestyles than single people, this doesn’t stop them from piling on the pounds.

of Central Queensland University in Australia and her colleagues have analysed a decade of survey data from more than 15,000 volunteers. Each person had answered questions about lifestyle choices, such as how much fast food they ate, and how much television they watched.

The team found that couples and singles seem to do the same amount of physical activity, and watch similar amounts of television, even accounting for variables such as age, sex, employment status and level of education.

Generally, people in relationships seemed to make other healthier lifestyle choices, says Schoeppe. Couples ate more fruit and vegetables and less fast food, they drank less alcohol, and they smoked less too (PLoS One, ).

Other studies have shown that if couples are happy with their relationship, they are more likely to want to live healthier lifestyles because they want their relationship to last longer too, says at the University of Minnesota Medical School.

But despite this, people in relationships were more likely to be overweight. “It could be that couples are eating more of all food types together – both healthy fruits and vegetables, and desserts, or rich foods, which increases the likelihood of being overweight,” says Berge. “This may be because social behaviour in marriage commonly revolves around eating occasions.”

“When you’re married, your social behaviours tend to revolve around occasions that involve eating”

“When couples don’t need to look attractive and slim to attract a partner, they may feel more comfortable in eating more, or eating more foods high in fat and sugar,” says Schoeppe.

“How long you’ve been in the relationship for probably matters,” says at University College London. Past research has found that couples are more likely to be overweight or obese if they are married or have been living together for .

Having kids may also have an effect. “When couples have children in the household, they tend to eat the children’s leftovers or snacks,” Schoeppe says.

Relationship status seems to affect men and women differently. Heilmann has shown that single men who have divorced or separated from a partner are as men still in relationships. But there is no such link between divorce and alcohol in women.

Schoeppe hopes that understanding how relationship status affects health might help health practitioners give better advice to people who want to live more healthily. “When we look at interventions, we traditionally look at education, age and gender, but we less often look at relationship status,” she says. “Families and relationships play an important role in lifestyle choices. You’re a closed unit and can easily influence each other – so we have to consider that too.”

This article appeared in print under the headline “You really do put on weight in a relationship”

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